In modern society, queer communities are often at the forefront of cultural and aesthetic trends, as witnessed by the influence of shows like Queer Eye. For those who may not be as familiar with the latest styles and fashions, selecting a gift for a gay friend, brother, or boyfriend can seem daunting. This challenge is amplified when trying to find a suitable present for milestone occasions such as Christmas, birthdays, or coming-out celebrations that demonstrate support and solidarity.
25 Unique Gift Ideas for Gay Men
Discover the perfect gifts for gay men with our curated selection of 25 fantastic ideas that will surely delight even the most discerning individuals in your life. Whether you’re searching for a unique present to express your appreciation or looking to surprise a special someone, we’ve got you covered. Simply navigate through our list, filtering by price range or popularity, and find the ideal gift to show your loved ones how much they mean to you.
Boy Smells Votive Candle Set
Boy Smells candles are a testament to the power of creativity and passion, born from the kitchen of real-life couple Matthew Herman and David Kien in 2015. Fast-forward six years, and this brand has become an integral part of home goods culture, not just within the queer community but also beyond. This set of three petite candles, each with a burn time of approximately 25 hours, is a thoughtful gift option that will surely impress.
The trio includes fan-favorite scents Kush, Ash, and Cedar Stacks, carefully crafted to provide a unique sensory experience. Whether you’re looking for a way to show your appreciation or simply want to treat yourself, these handcrafted candles are an aromatic choice that’s sure to delight.
Burt’s Bees Hand Repair Gift Set
In today’s world, there’s no justification for having dry, cracked hands. While some individuals may experience difficulties due to their occupation, genetics, or lifestyle, others might simply want to indulge in some luxurious pampering. This comprehensive hand care set is designed to cater to both needs. It comprises two rich and nourishing hand creams, a cuticle cream, and a pair of soft cotton gloves that work together to provide long-lasting relief from dryness.
The thoughtful packaging – an elegant organza bag – makes it an ideal gift option for any occasion, whether it’s Christmas or a birthday. Furthermore, this self-care set is more than just a skincare product; it’s an opportunity to prioritize one’s well-being and indulge in some much-needed me-time.
Nike Air Max 720 Be True
For the athlete or athleisure enthusiast in your life, there’s no need to compromise on style or comfort. These shoes are designed to provide superior cushioning and support for their active pursuits, whether that’s a grueling workout or a night out at the club. With their sleek design, they’re sure to turn heads without being too loud about it. And, of course, there’s no denying the importance of having comfortable footwear when dancing the night away with friends.
For those who value both performance and fashion, these shoes are an excellent choice. As one satisfied customer noted, they’re incredibly cool and supportive for a variety of activities, from treadmill workouts to social events.
RuPaul Celebrity Drag Queen Prayer Candle
RuPaul’s influence on society is undeniable, much like peanut butter and jelly are an iconic pairing. If you’re looking for a gift that embodies the charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent of your gay friend or loved one who shares RuPaul’s enthusiasm, this Homegoods candle might be the perfect find. Embodying the show’s essence with its Pride-inspired design, it’s sure to delight fans of the iconic series.
As RuPaul himself would say, ‘good luck, and don’t f*ck it up’ – we won’t take that advice literally, but you get the idea! For my part, I’ve been thoroughly impressed by this candle’s visual appeal, which injects a dose of happiness into my day whenever I glance at it. Though I do wish the wick were centered for smoother burning, I appreciate the artwork’s quality and would love to see more designs featuring beloved drag queens.
Equator Coffees Equator Blend
Supporting LGBTQIA+ businesses is a fantastic way to show your allyship without sacrificing your daily cup of joe. One excellent example is Equator Coffee, which sources its beans from renowned regions like Sumatra, Kenya, Colombia, and Brazil. Their signature blend offers a complex flavor profile, with notes of sweet smokiness and dark chocolate. For me, the aroma of these coffee beans is a morning game-changer, setting the tone for a day filled with balance and richness.
Whether you’re fueling up for a busy schedule or simply need a pick-me-up, Equator Coffee’s products are an excellent choice.
The Art of Shaving Sandalwood Shaving Kit for Men
The ultimate shaving experience for the discerning gentleman is within reach thanks to The Art of Shaving’s comprehensive bundle. This thoughtful collection includes pre-shave oil, rich shaving cream, a luxurious brush for application, and soothing after-shave balm. By incorporating this kit into his daily routine, he can achieve a smoother shave, minimize irritation, and prevent those pesky nicks and cuts. The bundle also boasts a subtle, sandalwood fragrance that exudes masculinity.
For the modern man who craves a refined shaving experience, this kit is an absolute winner.
As someone who has had the pleasure of gifting this set to my husband annually, I can attest to its enduring popularity. He’s particularly fond of the aftershave, which leaves his skin smelling delightfully woody and fresh.
From my own observations, this shaving set seems to elevate the morning routine, providing a gentle, non-irritating, and moisturizing experience that’s almost as if it contained lotion. Even when paired with a Gillette Exfoliator, this product ensures comfort and avoids redness, solidifying The Art of Shaving’s reputation as a trusted brand in our household.
Malin + Goetz Clarifying Shampoo for Men
Indulge his love for self-care with a luxurious gift: Malin + Goetz’s invigorating shampoo. This 16-fluid ounce bottle is formulated to gently cleanse and moisturize his scalp, while the peppermint scent from natural essential oils leaves a refreshing aroma. Perfect for the gay man who appreciates indulgent grooming experiences, this shampoo doubles as a body wash too – just be prepared for a slightly higher price point.
While it may not lather as much as some others, its unique blend of ingredients leaves hair looking healthy and full of life, with an unmistakable shine and thickness that’s hard to resist. Even those who claim it’s overhyped can’t deny the relaxing aromatherapy effect after showering – making this product a must-have for any self-care enthusiast.
Pink House Alchemy Lavender Syrup
Indulge in the delightful flavors of Pink House Alchemy Syrup, a 16-ounce blend of fresh lavender flowers and cane syrup that’s anything but simple. With its unique flavor profile, this not-so-everyday syrup has become an indispensable ingredient in our favorite cocktails and lattes. As a proud supporter of LGBTQIA+-owned businesses, we’re thrilled to share our experience with this delightful concoction. From our personal perspective, the lavender syrup is a game-changer.
The delicate sweetness it adds to hot or cold beverages is nothing short of enchanting. We appreciate the natural ingredients used in its production, even if it means sacrificing a fraction of the potency found in other brands. While it may be on the pricier side, the small amount required to achieve the desired flavor makes the bottle last longer than expected.
Peace Out Pores
If your gay friend is obsessed with Dr. Pimple Popper’s videos and skincare routines, chances are they’re hooked on pimple patches too. In the past year alone, these miracle workers have taken the online world by storm. As a supporter of diversity and inclusion, you can show your love for the LGBTQIA+ community by choosing to buy from Peace Out, an incredible brand owned by members of this community.
Their set includes eight strips – four for the nose and four for pores – designed to extract impurities and leave skin feeling smooth and refreshed.
From a user’s perspective, I’ve had the pleasure of trying these pore strips myself. After a warm shower, I wear them overnight and find they’re remarkably effective in combating blackheads and breakouts caused by mask-wearing. The best part?
They stick seamlessly to my fair skin, allowing me to wear them to work without drawing attention to myself. A word of caution, though: the adhesive can be quite strong, which ensures a secure fit but may cause slight discomfort when removing. To avoid any pain, I recommend peeling off slowly.
Alder New York Cleansing Body Bar
For those who equate self-care with skin-care, this cleansing body bar is a game-changer. The unique blend of ingredients, including Jojoba oil, collagen, shea butter, sea kelp, and more, provides gentle exfoliation without stripping the skin of its natural oils. This eco-friendly brand, owned by members of the LGBTQIA+ community, takes pride in being palm-oil-free, vegan, and free from harsh chemical fragrances.
As someone who has experienced the benefits of this product firsthand, I can attest to its effectiveness. The soap lathers well, producing a rich, creamy texture that doesn’t irritate even the most sensitive skin. The exfoliating properties are surprisingly gentle yet effective in removing dead skin cells and leaving the skin feeling smooth and refreshed.
While some may find issue with the distinct, rubber-like scent (which I must admit took some getting used to), the benefits of this product far outweigh any minor drawbacks. And let’s not forget its commitment to being cruelty-free, vegan, and made from natural ingredients. Yes, it may be a pricier option, but for those who prioritize their skin health and wellness, this cleansing body bar is well worth the investment.
Bokksu – Authentic Japanese Snack & Candy Subscription
Embark on a culinary journey around the world without leaving your home. While you may not be able to take your loved one on a thrilling adventure to Tokyo’s Kawaii streets, you can still treat them to an authentic Japanese experience. Introducing a monthly subscription box that brings 20-25 unique and delicious snacks from Japan right to your doorstep. From sweet treats to savory bites and exclusive creations, this curated selection offers something for every palate.
What’s more, by purchasing this box, you’ll be supporting LGBTQIA+-owned business and the family-run candy makers they partner with in Japan, making it a truly special experience.
ROVERLUND Airline Compliant Pet Carrier
When it comes to traveling with your furry best friend, you want the best for them – and yourself. For the stylish traveler (and their pup), Roverlund’s innovative travel carrier is a must-have. This LGBTQIA+-owned brand has thoughtfully designed a bag that not only meets airline restrictions but also converts into a car seat or travel bed, perfect for longer journeys. The sturdy handle doubles as a removable leash, making it easy to navigate through airports and streets.
The sleek design and durable materials make this carrier a stylish addition to your travels, whether you’re exploring the world with your pup or heading out on a quick weekend getaway. In my experience, the Roverlund carrier exceeded expectations – my Shih Tzus and even my nervous Dachshund loved it during our flights, preferring it to other carriers I’ve used. The thoughtful features, such as the built-in safety tether and removable leash, were a big plus.
While it may be slightly pricier than some options, the sturdy construction, practical design, and stylish aesthetic make it well worth the investment.
Be Gay Do Crime Dad Hat
LGBTQ Trevor Project Socks
When it comes to gifts that give back, it’s not just about the recipient – it’s about the impact we can make together. Take, for instance, these adorable socks that double as a donation to The Trevor Project, a non-profit dedicated to crisis intervention and suicide prevention for LGBTQ teens. Not only do you get to delight your gay friend with a stylish pair of footwear, but you’ll also be supporting a vital cause.
What’s more, the materials used to make these socks are ethically sourced, fairtrade, and vegan-friendly, ensuring that your gift not only feels good but looks good too.
MANSCAPED Perfect Package 3.0 Kit
Everyone’s approach to personal grooming is unique, but that doesn’t mean they have the expertise to execute it effectively. Remember that old, worn-out razor collecting dust in his shower caddy? It’s time to upgrade and help him take his downstairs grooming game to the next level with Manscaped’s Perfect Package 3.0 Kit.
This comprehensive kit features an electric trimmer, ball deodorant (a game-changer we never knew existed), ball spritz, all-over body wash, a 4-piece nail kit, shaving mats, and a sleek travel bag. The result is a refined grooming experience that’s as efficient as it is enjoyable. Community feedback suggests the electric razor delivers a close shave with minimal risk of nicks or cuts, while the battery life holds up remarkably well.
Although the charging dock may lose its reliability over time, the additional manicure kit and body care products are a pleasant surprise, particularly the odor-controlling lotion and toner that elevate this grooming tool beyond mere functionality.
Big Gay Alphabet Coloring Book
In recent years, adult coloring books have experienced a surge in popularity, largely due to their scientifically-backed relaxation benefits. If your gay friend is seeking a calming outlet after a long day or a disappointing social encounter, consider introducing them to this stress-relieving trend. The book’s eco-friendly design, featuring over 50 stunning illustrations, provides an inviting space for them to express themselves creatively and unwind.
In The Cards: How to Read Tarot Class and Deck
The tarot class I recently took was an eye-opening experience that delved into the world of tarot readings. Not only did it cover the fundamental principles, but it also came with a beautifully illustrated deck of cards. While it didn’t offer a glimpse into the future, it did help me develop my intuition and tap into my inner wisdom. Interestingly, it also led me to conclude that men’s rompers will likely remain a niche fashion trend rather than becoming mainstream.
Free to Be Me LGBTQ+ Journal
Are you celebrating the recent coming-out of a loved one, such as your son, brother, or friend? Coming out can be an emotional and intimidating experience, even for those who are accepting. One thoughtful way to show support is by gifting them the Free to Be Me LGBTQ+ journal. This 192-page book is specifically designed for young people navigating their gender and sexuality, featuring affirmation exercises, drawing and coloring opportunities, and a wealth of self-care prompts.
As someone who has recently gone through a similar experience, I was blown away by the journal’s therapeutic and empowering effects. The affirmations and creative activities helped me process my emotions and develop a stronger sense of self-love and understanding. This gift is more than just a token of appreciation – it’s a powerful tool for personal growth and self-discovery.
Love is Love DIY Embroidery Kit
Was the iconic British Diver Tom Daley’s knitting antics at the Olympics enough to spark a creative urge? It seems so, as he brought his own flair to the sporting event. Inspired by this moment, we’re diving into the world of DIY and home goods with an adorable kit that combines creativity and self-expression. Not only does it allow you to make a political statement, but also lets you showcase your love for loved ones – literally!
Imagine stitching ‘Love is Love’ onto a beautiful embroidery hoop or gifting it to a special someone. This fun and quirky project is perfect for crafty couples looking to spend quality time together.
Instructional Cork Yoga Mat
For yogis who crave more than just a quick savasana, this exceptional yoga mat offers a wealth of information. Featuring over 100 conveniently illustrated stretches and poses directly on the mat, it’s an invaluable tool for mastering various yoga and pilates routines. The high-quality cork material and anti-slip backing ensure stability during transitions, eliminating any risk of slipping or falling.
Whether you’re gifting this unique item to a fitness enthusiast or using it yourself, it’s sure to elevate your practice with its thoughtful design. With its wealth of knowledge at your fingertips, you’ll be guided through even the most challenging poses with ease and confidence.
Intimacy Card Deck
When it comes to nurturing strong relationships, effective communication is key. While some individuals may not be naturally forthcoming with their thoughts and feelings, there are ways to encourage deeper connections. The unique cards in this set are designed to spark meaningful conversations by exploring topics like intimacy, shared experiences, and personal life.
Perfect for couples looking to break the monotony of date nights or simply strengthen their bond, these prompts will have you and your partner putting down your devices and truly connecting. In our experience, this card set has been a game-changer. We’ve found that by delving into topics like past experiences and personal growth, we’ve gained a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, and desires.
It’s not just about spicing up date nights – it’s about building a stronger connection that can withstand the challenges life may bring.
Love Is Art Kit
Transform your average date night into an extraordinary experience with this unique couple’s art kit. Rather than settling for a generic TJ Maxx art print that might end up in a guest bathroom, consider gifting the power to unleash their creativity and passion.
This comprehensive kit includes everything they need to turn intimacy into an artistic expression of love: black, non-toxic paint, white cotton canvas, plastic sheeting to contain any mess, disposable slippers for added comfort, and a body scrubber for relaxation. As you indulge in this abstract expressionism-inspired adventure, you’ll create memories that will far surpass those from a typical night out.
The thoughtful inclusion of practical items makes this gift not only creative but also considerate of the couple’s needs. I was thrilled with the experience it brought to our date night, and I’m confident it will do the same for any lucky recipients.
Handcrafted Gentleman’s Gift Set
For the skin-care enthusiasts on your shopping list, consider gifting an all-in-one set that combines handcrafted bath and body products. Each item is carefully crafted with natural ingredients like goat’s milk, shea butter, essential oils, beeswax, and more. The collection comes in travel-sized bottles, perfect for the busy man on-the-go who values convenience. To add a touch of rustic charm, the products are nestled in a wooden box, making it easy to wrap and gift.
Adidas Originals Men’s Pride Off-Center Jacket
When it comes to making a bold fashion statement, few pieces stand out like this vibrant 80’s-inspired windbreaker. With multiple friends sporting the unique off-center design and bright color palette, it’s clear that this jacket has become an instant favorite for many. Its ability to turn heads is undeniable, even in a sea of rainbow accessories at pride events or casual outings alike.
While I did find myself disappointed by its lack of waterproofing during a rainy outing, the generous fit and stylish design more than make up for it. This windbreaker’s undeniable cuteness and flair make it a great addition to any wardrobe, whether you’re looking to make a statement or simply stay warm.
Unique Wedding Gift Custom Candle
A one-of-a-kind, customizable scented candle makes a thoughtful and unique gift for any occasion – whether it’s a wedding, civil ceremony, engagement, or anniversary. With the ability to personalize dates, names, and even locations on the heart-shaped map graphic, this gift is sure to leave a lasting impression. You can choose from nearly 20 distinct scents, such as champagne kisses and vanilla sandalwood, and upgrade to a larger candle size for an additional cost.
The presentation also deserves special mention – with options like wrapping and a ‘made with love’ bag, it’s almost too beautiful to burn! For me, the experience was elevated by the thoughtful details, including personalized labels and a charming miniature map that added a touch of whimsy. While my wife wasn’t a fan of the scent itself, she appreciated the effort and thought behind the gift.
In another instance, I gifted this candle to a friend with the ‘wedding cake’ scent, which genuinely smelled like a freshly baked treat – it was a delightful, personalized present that showed I cared.